My girlfriend has great natural beauty but sometimes she wears way to much make up. How can i tell her?

She looks great with a little bit of make up but sometimes when we go out she will wear to much make up or the colors she uses just doesn't look right on her. I like her alot and think she is beautiful but sometimes she does not look attractive when we go out. How can i tell her this and have it work out for the both us? and not hurting her feelings, which might be hard to do? Thanks.My girlfriend has great natural beauty but sometimes she wears way to much make up. How can i tell her?
First of all, consider yourself lucky that you have found someone that takes pride in their appearance and takes care of themselves. Like any part of a relationship ';honesty is the best policy';. Look her in the eye and tell her the same way that you told us. Your tone of voice will have more impact that what you actually say. By the way, due to changes in lighting conditions, expect her (and most women) to wear more make up at night. That part is normal.





If you want to be more subtle, give her a day at a spa, complete with a makeover. It will take all of the pressure off of you and give her a professional consultation at the same time.





OR you could always let her read your posted question.My girlfriend has great natural beauty but sometimes she wears way to much make up. How can i tell her?
You can't. If she likes how she looks then she does.


If you say anything you'll sound controlling. Unless of course, she asks for your opinion, then feel free to share it.


The best you can do is when she's wearing less make-up, make sure to give her plenty of compliments on how beautiful she is.
Some people are insecure thus covering up. You have to make her feel comfortable and secure.





When she is not wearing any make up....kiss and touch her face and tell her that you love her look when she is natural because u love to kiss and touch her and you can't when she all made up. And then say I would love for you to be this natural all the time so I can kiss and touch your face more.
You should tell her why you think she is beautiful. Tell her it's her skin, smile etc. so she knows she doesn't have to wear make-up to look pretty. Also, compliment her a lot more heavily when she wears less make-up. Say ';God, you're gorgeous! You look so sexy when you do your make-up like this!'; Compliment her when she wears a lot of make-up too but just say ';You look nice.';
my boyfriend keeps telling me the same thing


';i like your natural look';


';u wear too much blusher/ lip gloss';


';u keep buying eyeliners';


but i, as every other girl, love my make-up!


i never stopped him from wearing his funky shoes or shirt so why must he stop me from using my favourite estee lauder?


in the end, i replied, ';why don't u find a girl who looks like ugly betty';


that shut him up and he's now buying me perfumes and eye shadows





so what i'm telling you, boy, don't seperate a girl from her make-up case. if she's happy, u should be happy too.


otherwise, take her to bobbi brown for a make-over. or in this case, a make-under
Put your amour suit on first. Then say ';Sweetheart, Can I ask you something without you getting upset?'; (that way you are locked in with her not getting upset) Then say '; why do you cover up all of your natural beauty will all of that make up';? Then nicely proceed to get into detail. I can't see why she would get mad at you. I think it's very honest. It's a good thing. She should take it as a compliment! Good luck! :)
Regardless of what you say her feelings will be hurt. You have to realize you've felt this way for awhile and you're just now telling her. What about her friends and family, they should have told her a long time ago. Well the only way to tell her is to just come out and say it tactfully. Tell her that she is a very beautiful woman and that she doesn't need to wear make-up. I personally don't wear much make-up, I only wear lip gloss and lip liner. Maybe you can take a picture of her without the make-up and then take a picture with the over-the-top-makeup and show her the difference. Maybe she's wearing the make-up because she feels insecure about her looks. It's one thing to have someone tell you you are beautiful but you must know it yourself.
Tell her exactly what you just told me - she'll be more appreciative of the honesty then if you were to just keep saying ';ehh, you look great tonight'; when you half mean it.
Step lightly is the only advice I can give you mate.





Wow, I hope I never have to tell my girlfriend that I am baffled as to how to ask that kind of questions..





Maybe get a mate to suggest it to her?
Be honest hun! she will appreciate you more for being truthful! Don't just blurt it out just suggest to her that she is far more attractive with less and that she IS naturally beautiful!
you just make little sneaky comments when y'all are alone and she is in her natural state.. baby you are so beautiful i love how smooth your skin feel all pure and innocent. the main thing is say it when y'all are alone just in case it don't come out right then she will not be embarrass. or you can just come out and ask her why she feels like she needs to wear makeup because you love her just the way god made her ..natural. but be careful because you suppose to love her the way she is in the inside not the out
There are a couple things you can try. When you see her with the small amount of make up on (which you like), tell her that she looks ';gorgeous'; or something that will flatter her. Every time you see her like that make sure you tell her something special. Eventually she will get the hint that you like her makeup that way. Girls pick up the 'hint' pretty easily. Or, if she ever asks for your opinion tell her the way that she did it last time (referring to the light make up). Hope this helps.
Lol, just be honest with her and tell her about your opinion. Bring it up at anytime. It's a relationship so your opinion is as important as hers.
Buy her natural color makeup as a gift .